Those who hade to go in the front of us.
O´malley (Golden Lab)
Malley´s story
eMalley was bought by one of my former girlfreinds.
He was about 7 month´s old, and had lived for 3 month´s in a shelter, because the old lady that bought him to begin whit, was not able to look after him, because of he´s high energy and she then dumbt him at a shelter.
My friend wanted a dog, no specific dog, it just had to be easy to train, and she found Malley in a news paper, and she bought him right away.
After a week she realized that she didn't wanted Malley anyway, she wanted a purebred golden retriever, and Malley was a golden retriver/ F1 Labrador retriver mix, so she began to stop caring for him, stop´t walking him, stop´t feeding him, didn't´t wanted to go to the wet, and get him mark´t and vaccinated.....
At the time she was living in my apartment for free, and when she stop´t caring for the dog, I startet to take over, he didn't had to suffer because she stop´t carring, and wanted something els then what she got.
1 month past, and then one more, she bought a purebred golden retriever pup, and she found a new place to live and didn't wanted Malley to come whit her, up to that time I had pay´d for dog food, walk the dog, played whit him, and learned him some basic stuff.
Unfortully he had suffered from trauma from the shelter, so he was a very scared dog, he would panic if someone els then me or my friend would pet him, he whut pee in panic if he was introduced to new stuff, he whut some times screem and run in panic if a stranger was walking past him to close. he was defently not a dog for every one.
so when she came to me, and ask if I whut help her selling him, I said No, but I will pay the vaccine and registration if I can keep him...she never thought about it, she just said yes.
that´s how Malley became my dog.
In the following 3 years I slowly introduced him to more and more people and new stuff, when he became 3 years we was at the point where I cut ask him, to go over to people so they cut pet him, but he never ever stop´t being scared of them, he just accepted that if I said there was nothing to be afraid of, it was okay to do it.
At this time I was at a point where I cut not help him whit his mental problems any more, I just hoped that he one day whout realize that not all people was bad, and not all things was dangerous, but I seriuosly doubt´ed that it whout ever happen, and I was so sad that he had suffered sutch a traume in the shelter, in sutch a young age as 6 month. I promised my self that if it was going to be like this a year more, it whout be better to put him down, then to keep metal torturring him whit things, he was so metal suffering through.
I desided to give him 1 year more, just to see and hope that he whout improve and wish´t so for a Miracle of some kind, it was so sad to keep seeing him tormented every day.
I then moved to the sealand and this turn´t out to be the best thing that happened in Malley´s Life. Im still efter he´s death so happy that I made this choice.
I movede in to a horse stud to work and train horse for a while.
at the same time I moved my to horses whit me and got to know some of the other horse owners. They kep´t talking about another girl that didn't come so often, but was really sweet.
Malley was always following me around right up and down my legs, he was never leving my side always clinging to me, never walking on alone, always touching my leg whit his flanks, and always had a constant worry´d face on. when I was playing whit him, he wouth never ever go more then 1-2 meters away, then he wouth get scared and run back.
One day, the girl every one was talking about come in the stable, and when I was done working, I desided to go out and say hello and learn some more about her and her pony. Malley was as always following my every leg move.
The girl was named Johanna, and later on became a dressage and jumping student of mine. But this meeting was a true miracle......for Malley, it was the miracle I had hoped for in the last 3 years of malley´s life.
Malley was scared to death as always in the first 5 min.....then everything changed....suddently he started to relax, he got 10 inches higher, he's tale began to vag in the tip, then half the tale, and then all the tale was slowly wagging...he started to let go of all he´s worrying. suddenly, he lifted he´s head and started to take he´s ears forward...looking after Johanna as she jumps on her pony and startet to ride around, Malley started to make some funny small worried scummy noises, and I decided to try to se if he wout finally try to go out on he´s owen.......we decider to get he´s exitement on camera, and then the miracle was cought on tape......he left me, flying like the wind whitout worrying og anxsiaty, following Johanna and her ponies every move. this was the turning point in Malleys life, from that day on he´started to go out on adventures in the field alone, he wout leve me and be whit the horses, he wout go in to the stables on he's one. some times I didn't´t know where he was.
but every time I say´d. "is Johanna Comming" he wout sit straight up an down like a soldier and wait on the spot until he wout se Johanna"
From that day one, I was Malley´s owner, but Johanna was he´s soulmate, and every time someone wout ask me if it was my dog, I wont say. "on the papers it is, but in heart and soul, it is Johannas" because she savede his life, she gave him the will to survive and live back, I cutent do that for him, but hanna did.
Johanna and me talk´t alot about Malley tougth he´s short life, and I told he´r his story, about the old lady that had left him on a shelter In a way to young age, the traume he had all the way, and I told he´r about the 1 year chance I had desides to give him. and then I told her that If he wout ever go back in to the traume again, I rather put him down, then make him go tough that again, and hanna she agreed, but if that happen´t she had a wish to be there when he was being put down, to say goodbye and be there for him to the last.
unforturelly, that happens way to soon, he got 4 years more, and then he´started to go senile, got hipp problems, and turn´d aggressive because he now was metally strong enough to defend himself, so when he got the senile gabs, and thought he was back in the shelter and pain, he wout react aggressively and lounch out on the surrounding, growling and biding to after everything and everyone.. I hoped that I was just a current sudden fase, but when he keep´s suddenly jump out in the blue in panic over a tv, he just descoverd, and startet to get scared of people he meet every day, I started to get worried, and talks to Johanna, told her what was happening and we desident that, if it got whorse, he shut´nt suffer, he had to go while he was til happy and remembered us some times. I shut call her when it was time.
malley had his god and bad day´s, and for a while it seems like a break from the many people in he´s life some time wout help.
but one day, we where about to go to the grosery shop, and we didn't´t even got the key out of the car, before we hear a growl out of this world on the bag seed, me and my freind turn around and Malley was trying to bite he´s way out through the closed window in the care....the reason was a old women midt 60-70th whit a baby 3 year old kid in her arms going out of the car next to us, and whit a very scared look on manly sneaking by, on her way in to the grousery store.
me and my Pale, just shared a long look, and then look´t back at Malley.
I call´t to him and he turn around still growling and showing all of he´s teeth, but then he stop´t and look´t werry confused, crumbling down, wiening and wary submissive tryede to go on to the front seed to me, beging for my forgiveness. I sad there trying to convince him that it was okay, but both me and my pall had tears in over eyes all the way truth the grouser store, no words wore spoken from that moment.
I call´t Johanna when we come home. it was time.
Every one loved, Malley and we told friends and family that it was time to let Malley go, every one wanted to say godby to him, so we planed a date where people in Malleys life cout come and say godbye and see him for the last time.
Johanna was whit Malley all the weekend up to the moment, and she and her other friend had had Malley whit them around a lot of times, so they had contacted every one they knew, that had known Malley and the day me and my pale drow of to meet Johanna and Malley in the evening at the parkinlot on the grouser store, I was crying of respekt for peoples love to Malley.
234 people was on the Parkinglot to say goodbye to a dog they all knew and lovede, and more was constantly calling to pay there respect to the loving dog, that melted every persons heart.
it was so unrealistic, that this little golden lab, that had had a so sad start in his life, and was scared of everything and every body, that when he got his confedens back (thanks to hanna) had toutch so many people whit he´s loving and fun personality, always happy to meet new people, always helping people out of depressive mind state, even saving a gym´s life, i later found out. (the guy had wanted to kill himself, and had roun in to Johanna and Malley on the walk to the forest where he had planed to do an end to his life... he had never meet Malley before so Johanna had told him his story, Malley had from the sek he so him not left his side and had been very clingy and kiss´t the guy constantly, played whit him and kissing him, some more, the guy went home whit a new mental stat saying that life was a challenge but there´s always a reason to keep going.
we didn't´t know this before about a year after Malley was put down, but both me and Hanne was just not surprised to know this.
it was one of many impressions Malley did over the time.
Malley was a special dog, and he will never be forgotten.
The video is from the first meting whit Johanna, im so happy we got that on cam <3
He was about 7 month´s old, and had lived for 3 month´s in a shelter, because the old lady that bought him to begin whit, was not able to look after him, because of he´s high energy and she then dumbt him at a shelter.
My friend wanted a dog, no specific dog, it just had to be easy to train, and she found Malley in a news paper, and she bought him right away.
After a week she realized that she didn't wanted Malley anyway, she wanted a purebred golden retriever, and Malley was a golden retriver/ F1 Labrador retriver mix, so she began to stop caring for him, stop´t walking him, stop´t feeding him, didn't´t wanted to go to the wet, and get him mark´t and vaccinated.....
At the time she was living in my apartment for free, and when she stop´t caring for the dog, I startet to take over, he didn't had to suffer because she stop´t carring, and wanted something els then what she got.
1 month past, and then one more, she bought a purebred golden retriever pup, and she found a new place to live and didn't wanted Malley to come whit her, up to that time I had pay´d for dog food, walk the dog, played whit him, and learned him some basic stuff.
Unfortully he had suffered from trauma from the shelter, so he was a very scared dog, he would panic if someone els then me or my friend would pet him, he whut pee in panic if he was introduced to new stuff, he whut some times screem and run in panic if a stranger was walking past him to close. he was defently not a dog for every one.
so when she came to me, and ask if I whut help her selling him, I said No, but I will pay the vaccine and registration if I can keep him...she never thought about it, she just said yes.
that´s how Malley became my dog.
In the following 3 years I slowly introduced him to more and more people and new stuff, when he became 3 years we was at the point where I cut ask him, to go over to people so they cut pet him, but he never ever stop´t being scared of them, he just accepted that if I said there was nothing to be afraid of, it was okay to do it.
At this time I was at a point where I cut not help him whit his mental problems any more, I just hoped that he one day whout realize that not all people was bad, and not all things was dangerous, but I seriuosly doubt´ed that it whout ever happen, and I was so sad that he had suffered sutch a traume in the shelter, in sutch a young age as 6 month. I promised my self that if it was going to be like this a year more, it whout be better to put him down, then to keep metal torturring him whit things, he was so metal suffering through.
I desided to give him 1 year more, just to see and hope that he whout improve and wish´t so for a Miracle of some kind, it was so sad to keep seeing him tormented every day.
I then moved to the sealand and this turn´t out to be the best thing that happened in Malley´s Life. Im still efter he´s death so happy that I made this choice.
I movede in to a horse stud to work and train horse for a while.
at the same time I moved my to horses whit me and got to know some of the other horse owners. They kep´t talking about another girl that didn't come so often, but was really sweet.
Malley was always following me around right up and down my legs, he was never leving my side always clinging to me, never walking on alone, always touching my leg whit his flanks, and always had a constant worry´d face on. when I was playing whit him, he wouth never ever go more then 1-2 meters away, then he wouth get scared and run back.
One day, the girl every one was talking about come in the stable, and when I was done working, I desided to go out and say hello and learn some more about her and her pony. Malley was as always following my every leg move.
The girl was named Johanna, and later on became a dressage and jumping student of mine. But this meeting was a true miracle......for Malley, it was the miracle I had hoped for in the last 3 years of malley´s life.
Malley was scared to death as always in the first 5 min.....then everything changed....suddently he started to relax, he got 10 inches higher, he's tale began to vag in the tip, then half the tale, and then all the tale was slowly wagging...he started to let go of all he´s worrying. suddenly, he lifted he´s head and started to take he´s ears forward...looking after Johanna as she jumps on her pony and startet to ride around, Malley started to make some funny small worried scummy noises, and I decided to try to se if he wout finally try to go out on he´s owen.......we decider to get he´s exitement on camera, and then the miracle was cought on tape......he left me, flying like the wind whitout worrying og anxsiaty, following Johanna and her ponies every move. this was the turning point in Malleys life, from that day on he´started to go out on adventures in the field alone, he wout leve me and be whit the horses, he wout go in to the stables on he's one. some times I didn't´t know where he was.
but every time I say´d. "is Johanna Comming" he wout sit straight up an down like a soldier and wait on the spot until he wout se Johanna"
From that day one, I was Malley´s owner, but Johanna was he´s soulmate, and every time someone wout ask me if it was my dog, I wont say. "on the papers it is, but in heart and soul, it is Johannas" because she savede his life, she gave him the will to survive and live back, I cutent do that for him, but hanna did.
Johanna and me talk´t alot about Malley tougth he´s short life, and I told he´r his story, about the old lady that had left him on a shelter In a way to young age, the traume he had all the way, and I told he´r about the 1 year chance I had desides to give him. and then I told her that If he wout ever go back in to the traume again, I rather put him down, then make him go tough that again, and hanna she agreed, but if that happen´t she had a wish to be there when he was being put down, to say goodbye and be there for him to the last.
unforturelly, that happens way to soon, he got 4 years more, and then he´started to go senile, got hipp problems, and turn´d aggressive because he now was metally strong enough to defend himself, so when he got the senile gabs, and thought he was back in the shelter and pain, he wout react aggressively and lounch out on the surrounding, growling and biding to after everything and everyone.. I hoped that I was just a current sudden fase, but when he keep´s suddenly jump out in the blue in panic over a tv, he just descoverd, and startet to get scared of people he meet every day, I started to get worried, and talks to Johanna, told her what was happening and we desident that, if it got whorse, he shut´nt suffer, he had to go while he was til happy and remembered us some times. I shut call her when it was time.
malley had his god and bad day´s, and for a while it seems like a break from the many people in he´s life some time wout help.
but one day, we where about to go to the grosery shop, and we didn't´t even got the key out of the car, before we hear a growl out of this world on the bag seed, me and my freind turn around and Malley was trying to bite he´s way out through the closed window in the care....the reason was a old women midt 60-70th whit a baby 3 year old kid in her arms going out of the car next to us, and whit a very scared look on manly sneaking by, on her way in to the grousery store.
me and my Pale, just shared a long look, and then look´t back at Malley.
I call´t to him and he turn around still growling and showing all of he´s teeth, but then he stop´t and look´t werry confused, crumbling down, wiening and wary submissive tryede to go on to the front seed to me, beging for my forgiveness. I sad there trying to convince him that it was okay, but both me and my pall had tears in over eyes all the way truth the grouser store, no words wore spoken from that moment.
I call´t Johanna when we come home. it was time.
Every one loved, Malley and we told friends and family that it was time to let Malley go, every one wanted to say godby to him, so we planed a date where people in Malleys life cout come and say godbye and see him for the last time.
Johanna was whit Malley all the weekend up to the moment, and she and her other friend had had Malley whit them around a lot of times, so they had contacted every one they knew, that had known Malley and the day me and my pale drow of to meet Johanna and Malley in the evening at the parkinlot on the grouser store, I was crying of respekt for peoples love to Malley.
234 people was on the Parkinglot to say goodbye to a dog they all knew and lovede, and more was constantly calling to pay there respect to the loving dog, that melted every persons heart.
it was so unrealistic, that this little golden lab, that had had a so sad start in his life, and was scared of everything and every body, that when he got his confedens back (thanks to hanna) had toutch so many people whit he´s loving and fun personality, always happy to meet new people, always helping people out of depressive mind state, even saving a gym´s life, i later found out. (the guy had wanted to kill himself, and had roun in to Johanna and Malley on the walk to the forest where he had planed to do an end to his life... he had never meet Malley before so Johanna had told him his story, Malley had from the sek he so him not left his side and had been very clingy and kiss´t the guy constantly, played whit him and kissing him, some more, the guy went home whit a new mental stat saying that life was a challenge but there´s always a reason to keep going.
we didn't´t know this before about a year after Malley was put down, but both me and Hanne was just not surprised to know this.
it was one of many impressions Malley did over the time.
Malley was a special dog, and he will never be forgotten.
The video is from the first meting whit Johanna, im so happy we got that on cam <3